Chance Chat #47 Happy vs Lonely

I’m typing this up on Thursday night because I know the weekend is going to be crazy and I won’t get to it. I also usually have more time at the beginning of the week, but life happened.

Happy Free Confused and Lonely

Last weekend had some high highs, and some lower lows. I’m still surviving Financial Accounting, I had a blast at Minnesota Bloggers Conference. And just as I was about to go home, have some dinner and feel the strange stillness of being alone….I got invited to visit a friend. Since I didn’t have any plans I jumped on the offer. Pizza, beer, and a movie was wonderful. But the visit took a turn I didn’t expect and I drove home at 10 pm tired and very confused. I’m almost wishing I had turned down the offer and just had a quiet Saturday night instead of the night that was had. But it can’t be reversed. And now I don’t know what to do, or where to go next.

Thankfully I’ve got some great friends and coworkers and have stayed busy enough that I’m not dwelling on the uncertainty. But that doesn’t mean I like it.

Growing up is hard to do, and I don’t think it ever ends. Have you felt the strange mix of emotions before? How did you deal with it?

P.S. How does this related to Chance? Well I took a chance and visited the friend (its been a roller coaster friendship, where I never know quite where we stand…) And, the photo was pinned, but I can’t find it to link, and I’m 99% sure I pinned it after finding it on Beauty Bets. But can’t find that original post, so I just linked to her website in general. Here’s hoping this week is better than last week!

4 thoughts on “Chance Chat #47 Happy vs Lonely

  1. Ugh, I do not do well with complicated and stressful situations – especially with friends. I hope you get some clarity about what you should do about that friendship, although maybe the not-so-great emotions it provoked are telling you that it’s not a friendship you should invest your time into…

  2. I can really understand the emotions that you are talking about in this post! Often, I look forward to a night when I don’t have any plans – so I can just relax by myself. But then, when someone invites me to do something – i feel like I MUST say yes, or else risk being lonely. And then sometimes I regret it! Don’t fret about it too much. Just try in those situations to listen to your heart and think about what you REALLY want to do.

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